When you work so hard to hold on to something, you forget to enjoy it! Someone told me this week that he was trying to do everything possible to move his relationship further along with his girlfriend so that they would be to the point where she couldn't leave him. He was so desperately searching for some security that he was clearly not enjoying his relationship at all and although I don't know the girl, I can guarantee she is not happy! Allow the Universe to guide you, if things are meant to be, they will be and if they are not, be grateful because better things will come. Don't be a control freak, don't hold on so hard to things that you don't enjoy them, live with love and passion, live with the knowledge that things will ultimately work out and you will be taken care of, love with integrity, love with faith and Live Inspired Now!