What is your story? Are you saying "it's not my fault, I had a horrible childhood" or are you saying "I have overcome some hard challenges and I can do anything!" It is all about the story you tell yourself! Listen to your own story when you are speaking, are you focusing on the negative or the positive, are you a "can-do" person or an "I can't" person?
Focus on the things you CAN do, the beautiful things, the things you are grateful for and Live An Inspired Life!